4 November 2013
“Peaceful Fruit”
With a name like “Peaceful Fruit” one would find
it hard to believe that Freissalaam is so much trouble. At 3 years old he’s
asserted his dominance between the 30 meters of street in front of his house.
Few cows, sheep, goats, horses, donkeys or children go unattended to. From sun
up until sun down my little friend runs wild. Mostly it’s his mom that suffers from
his poor behavior and antics. Fortunately for Freissalaam, he’s cute...
REALLY cute!
Along with the mosque and the Orthodox Church, Freissalaam
is one of the main reasons I wear ear plugs at night. Without them I would probably
average only 4 hours of uninterrupted sleep per night. I don’t know when
Peaceful Fruit sleeps because whenever I’m awake, I hear him. I hear him
harassing the livestock. I hear him bossing around his friends. I hear him
pretending to cry when he’s disciplined. And most of the time I hear his
mother:
“SALAAM, quarta mei!!” (SALAAM! Come to me)
This is repeated about 6 times before she just hauls off on
him and starts yelling and screaming high pitch noises and chasing him down the
street; shortly thereafter I hear him crying and hitting things to vent his
frustration. From the comfort (but no peace) inside my home, I can identify all
the neighbor children by the sound of their crying and tantrums. I know each of
them for their unique build-up, their chorus, I know when it’s fake and when
it’s real and I know their mother’s response. It is like musical theater, one
that would never sell tickets or gather a gratifying audience.
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Looking cool in Amanda's sunglasses |
My favorite part of having all these noisy, needy children
as my neighbors is not their cacophony of cries, or that they’re always sticky,
snotty and pooping in the middle of the road, my favorite part of all these
kiddos is how sweet they are to me. As soon as I leave my compound, no matter
how discrete I try to be, I am quickly spotted.
“
B!!” Shouts the first witness, then like a
stampede of clumsy puppies they come running towards my kneecaps. In a
remarkably short amount of time I am surrounded, as if trapped in quicksand, I
lose mobility, I feel trapped. The more I resist the tighter they squeeze. At
least once a week they share fleas with me, but as a lonely foreigner who
doesn’t receive much affection, I dismiss any concerns about flea bites and hug
them back, rubbing their small backs, tickling their necks and scratching their
rough and untidy hair. Their giggles and lingering embrace lets me know that
they appreciate the extra affection too. We finish our group huddle with some
fist-bombs, bumping our knuckles together when I command them with “
gitch!” which means fist. Many of the
children will kiss their knuckles after they pull them away from mine and tap
their chest. This is a version of street slang and hoodlums that I can hang
with.